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Jessica C. Anderson's avatar

Love this! And I feel the same way as Hill about V day! :)

Anita Brandt Burgoyne's avatar

You are both incredibly lucky to have each other. What lovely and insightful words.

Julie's avatar
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This is one of the best articles on marriage I’ve read… encouraging and insightful and reminds us it’s the little things and we can always keep trying!! Thanks:).

Rebecca's avatar

Yes. This. All of this. The right response really is presence, not logic. I loved the way you framed it!

Dawn Pulgine's avatar

You’re a wise man, Bob. I’m passing your wisdom along to the guy I’ve been married to for nearly 38 years. 😉😂

Phill E Cheesesteak's avatar

Here’s to IGY’s!

Jill Meyer's avatar

Well said! I’m married to a non-idiot like yourself. I’m not sure it’s a teachable quality!

Bob D. Smiley's avatar

Gosh I hope it is! 😂

MaryBeth Lathrop's avatar

I'm very lucky to be married to a man who does the little things you list. I'm very happy in my life and my marriage. I'll tell you what though, Loren (husband) has done that spider thing more than once and like a crazy woman (who CAN'T do spiders) I get rather wound up every time. He knows. He tries. Being unsuccessful pretty much causes him to check flight ✈️ prices to anywhere that isn't here.

Thank you, Bob, for a perfect afternoon read.

Bob D. Smiley's avatar

Hey, he’s trying! And that is something! Happy you’ve got a good one.

MaryBeth Lathrop's avatar

Oh, I'm definitely very happy. Just get a bit unhinged around bugs 🐛. Spiders 🕷 in particular. 😲😳

Matt MacRae's avatar

Well written article. It was engaging, heartwarming and thought provoking thanks for the lessons.